As They Truly Are
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Μὴ τοιαῦτα ὑπολάμβανε, οἷα ὁ ὑβρίζων κρίνει ἢ οἷά σε κρίνειν βούλεται, ἀλλὰ ἴδε αὐτά, ὁποῖα κατʼ ἀλήθειάν ἐστιν.
Do not suppose things to be such as the insolent man judges them, or such as he wishes you to judge them, but see them as they are in truth.
When someone insults you, do not accept his estimate of things or the estimate he wants you to hold; look at the matter as it is in truth.
The occasion is an insult (ὑβρίζων, the man committing ὕβρις), and Marcus’s counsel is to refuse the aggressor’s frame twice over. The insulter has his own estimate of what is happening — that you are diminished, bested, shamed — and he also wants you to adopt that estimate, since an insult only lands if the target accepts it as one. Marcus tells himself to hold to neither. The verb ὑπολάμβανε, "suppose," points again to his central teaching that our distress lives in our suppositions; the remedy is to replace a borrowed judgment with a true one.
The positive command is simply ἴδε αὐτά, ὁποῖα κατ᾽ ἀλήθειάν ἐστιν — "see them as they are in truth." Where the insulter offers an inflamed interpretation, Marcus substitutes plain seeing: what actually occurred, stripped of the loaded meanings the offender and one’s own vanity supply. This is the same move he makes throughout Book 4, whether the provoker is another person, one’s own body, or the fear of death: get behind the dramatizing opinion to the bare fact. The undercurrent is a kind of intellectual self-defense — the one estimate that can wound you is the false one you agree to.
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